The ballroom community is steadily gaining recognition as a cultural force in our country, propelled by the mesmerizing ‘voguing’ performances circulating on various social media platforms. These movements, intertwining music with striking poses reminiscent of modeling, have captured widespread attention. Beyond the digital realm, television shows like Drag Race and Pose have entered the ball community’s world. However, the true essence of attending a ball goes beyond mere entertainment—it’s a profound experience where I found a sense of connection, acceptance, and belonging within a diverse and supportive community.

For those who have yet to explore Filipino ballroom culture deeply, it’s easy to mistake it for the typical street basketball scene. However, I’m here to tell you it’s an entirely different ball game.

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Viewers familiar with Drag Race and Pose will recognize that the ballroom community, rooted in expressions and terminologies of queer culture, has its origins with people of color. Madonna’s timeless hit “Vogue” was undeniably inspired by the ballroom community and its roots in the underground culture of people of color. Even after 30 years, this fact remains relevant, cementing the song’s place in music history. Despite this, widespread awareness and appreciation of ballroom culture have yet to materialize entirely—it remains relatively new to many.

It was Valentine’s ball in The Addlib Studio, with everyone dressed to the nines in vibrant red outfits reminiscent of the 1980s, celebrating the love-filled February. The atmosphere was joyful, with people feeling confident and expressive in their attire. Throughout the evening, one name kept popping up: Xyza Ragunjan, fondly known as “Mother Xyza.” Her incredible contributions to the local ballroom community are widely recognized, as she catapulted its establishment in the local scene and fostered a strong sense of belonging within it. Thanks to her dedication, the tradition of hosting balls and welcoming new members thrives.

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Tens! Tens! Tens across the board! The resounding chant fills the ballroom, symbolizing the electric atmosphere of the event. Participants confidently strut their thing, aiming to steal the limelight in their respective categories. It’s a scene of spirited competition, where houses transform into teams of glamorous contenders, pushing the boundaries of creativity and style.

From the bold faces commanding attention on the runway to the dynamic couples exuding authenticity and even the impeccably dressed individuals vying for top honors, every moment showcases the artistry and distinctiveness of the queer community. This isn’t merely a ball; it’s a sanctuary—a safe space where individuals can express themselves freely and authentically.

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With each category, the ball magnifies the diversity and vitality of queer culture, celebrating its richness in ways that resonate deeply with attendees. It’s more than just a contest as it’s a jubilant affirmation of identity, inclusivity, and acceptance. Here, everyone is embraced for who they are, welcomed with open arms, and celebrated for their unique contributions to the community.

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The Sweet Valentine Ball is not just an event where participants receive prizes and recognition; it appears to me to be an indication of something much greater. It signifies not merely a ball but a community that has yet to be fully recognized and deserves acknowledgment by many. It embodies what unfolds in this age and era—a culmination of being true to one another and supporting each other with their expressions. Yet, how sweet it is to attend such a ball.